I am going to be forty fucking years old four weeks from tomorrow.
It's funny because I don't feel forty. And, I don't so much act forty. And I certainly don't look forty.
But, these sentiments beg the obvious question: How exactly is a forty-year old woman supposed to feel, look and act?
And, I suppose the answer is simple: It depends on the woman.
So, I need to disregard any preconceived notions I may have and rationalize my aging as it pertains to me, and to look at it in a way that is positive. And, when I think about it, it's actually quite easy to come up with a list of reasons why turning fucking forty is pretty kick-ass ~
1. I can still fuck. And I fuck better now than I ever have.
2. I am still fuckable. I am much more fuckable now than I was in my nubile-body-possessing 20's.
3. I don't give a fuck what most people think about me (friends excluded). Up until recently, I cared way too much about how people perceived me.
4. I spend most of my days writing and talking to people about fucking. Are you kidding me? How lucky am I? Once upon a time I would blush at just the mention of the word "cunt". Now I use it daily.
5. I have the most fabulous guy in the whole world to fuck whenever I want to ~ Hubby. And I am sure I always will.
6. I can get fucked whenever the mood strikes. Because of the social network I have built, thanks to the internet, all I would have to do is send an email, an IM or a text and I would be fucking within the hour.
7. I meet a lot of fuckers these days. And by fuckers, I mean men who are upfront and honest
about the fact that all they really want to do is fuck, nothing more. How refreshing!
8. And, this is all because I am in an open marriage. One that allows me to fuck my husband, fuck my boyfriend, fuck a stranger, fuck a woman, fuck 2 women! fuck a couple, fuck a married man, fuck a single slacker, or fly back home to fuck my former FWB.
Again, how fucking lucky could I be?
Turning forty is going to be fucking fabulous!!
6 comments:
I gotta agree! The month or so before I turned forty (June of 2007), I stressed A LOT about it. Two weeks afterwards, I realized all the same shit you did...I'm still rockin! And rockin' well! I'm proud of how "old" I am and the beautiful wisdom that I have. I think that I have aged well and I still turn the heads of 20-, 30-, 40-, and 50-somethings - both men and women. And I am lucky enough to feel oomfortable fucking whomever I wish to.
Enjoy where you have been and where you are going. Embrace your 40's. They will be the best years of your life...for so many reasons...I promise.
Congrats!
I'm yet to reach 40, but I tell you this:
When you come to the realization that you're comfortable and happy with who you are, age doesn't mean one FUCKING thing.
Live well, live loud, and squeeze every last drop out of it!
Thanks Southern V and Jormengrund! I am actually quite excited to reach this milestone, especially since everything is so fucking great right now! Thanks for your enthusiasm and your support as I roll onward, upward, forward and fuckward :) xo~Sadie
Sadie,
From my experience, a woman normally reaches her peak in her forties. That goes not only for desire but with your expereince, you will keep getting better and better.
I like a woman who knows what she is doing and participates as a full and honest partner when we get together for a long and sensual fuck session, giving each other the maximum pleasure that we can.
I rarely get that kind of quality fucking in someone below 40. So you can look forward to at least 10 more years of ther best sex you have ever had.
HT
Well, HT, what I have to say to that is... YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
xo~Sadie
I loved turning 40. I felt more at home in my skin than I ever had... I was getting back some of the freedom I'd lost when my children were small. 40 was great. And you know what? 41, 42 and 43 have been even better.
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