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Friday, September 12, 2008

Cum Squirt With Me. Confession #131


There's been a recent increase of interest and debate over the concept of female ejaculation.

Sex In The City brought it into popular culture after the turn of the 21st century and soon thereafter pornography depicting gushing girls began to crop up all over the web.

The interest?
The mere implication that women have the capacity to unload their orgasm in the same physical manner as men, thus equalling the playing field.

The debate? 
Whether or not is is actually a real phenomenon.

I get the interest. I think it's fascinating that, although there doesn't seem to be enough space up in the vaginal cavity to contain the amount of fluid that I have witnessed squirting out of some random chick on a porn site, the juice somehow manages to make it's way out and onto a face, or cock, or vibrator, or dildo, or finger, or fist, or foot, or... whatever.

And, as Julian confessed last night when we were discussing said squirting, "It's a major turn on!"

But, I also understand the debate. Not much research has been done on the female orgasm in general, much less this seemingly new erotic marvel. Yet, the Kama Sutra mentions it, comparing women's "semen" to that of a man's. And Aristotle stated that some women have a "liquid discharge" that sometimes "far exceeds" a man's ejaculate.

But, perhaps it was Freud who suppressed the prevailing pussy paradox from societal acceptance and forced it into taboo when he wrote in 1905, "an abnormal secretion of the mucous membrane of the vagina is looked upon as a source of disgust." Hmmm. Freud really screwed shit up for us girls, didn't he?

But, whatever. This is the century where we women take our power back. And, it is my belief and also my hope, that women cumming so incredibly hard that they release tidal waves of fluids of unknown origin and of obscure composition is just the very beginning of the shift.

Because, no matter if you believe squirting is an actuality or a fallacy, it is still an interesting concept. And one that will probably continue seeping into the socio-sexual consciousness for years to come. In fact, according to some practitioners of Tantra, women can be taught how to ejaculate. 

Hmmmm....

Sadie may have to sign up for a sexy squirt session.

17 comments:

Anonymous said...

I am a squirter. At first I thought it was pee. But it comes from my pussy, not from my urethra. I usually have loads of it...enough so that I have to fuck on a 'special' blanket I bought from Liberator. :) It's quite amazing and my husband it totally turned on by it.

Southern Vixen said...

Some of my current and former lovers are obsessed with this idea of squirting. I get asked about it at LEAST once a week. I had a couple of guys who I fucked a couple of months ago, who wanted to try to make me squirt. I swear it happened. I agree with anonymouus...it's not pee...it's bizarre, nonetheless....I can't explain it nor can I recreate it...

Sexie Sadie~ said...

I am absolutely fascinated by squirting. I, too am asked about it on occasion (not once a week, tho, you go Southern V!). I will have to find a suitable teacher, I think... xo~Sadie

swingerwife said...

I am fascinated by this concept as well. Although I admit that lately I seem to be bombarded with the "do you squirt when you cum" question, which is highly annoying. Just found your blog by way of Sugasm and will definitely be back!

Sexie Sadie~ said...

Yes, squirting is the new sexual "trend" from what I gather! Glad to have you stop by, swingerwife! I will check out your blog as well! xo~Sadie

BLISS WARRIOR said...

Wonderful post. I am voting for you on Sugasm and I hope you are one of the Top Three. XOXOXOXOXO

Naughty Angel said...

I too am a squirter. Like a lot of women, I thought it was pee too, but then I finally learned what it really was. I think it is amazing that us women can do this.

Sexie Sadie~ said...

Naughty Angel, what is it exactly?
Bliss Warrior, THANK YOU!!! xoxox~Sadie

probitionate said...

Yes, I'd be curious as to how 'those in the know' define what 'squirt juice' is...given that in every instance of lovers I've drunk from, the liquid is delivered from the urethra...

Eric said...

Hi.. yes it is real. It can totally soak a bed if you're not careful to put down towels or a special absorbent material such as those used in hospitals under incontinent patients. The fluid comes from the Paraurethral Glands of Skene, which exit through one or two tiny openings either just outside or just inside the Urethra. Since women's anatomy is variable, sometimes the Urethral opening is just inside the opening of the vagina, mostly not. Thus the confusion with pee. Josephine Lowndes Sevely wrote a wonderful book about how women's sexual anatomy is almost unstudied called "Eve's Secrets" and here is a link to a site all about female squirting. He does a good job of it.
http://doctorg.com/FemaleEjaculation.htm

Eric S Blumberg, Ph.D. (esblumberg at pobox.com)

(did research on highly sexual women)

Sexie Sadie~ said...

Thanks Doctor Eric, for your professional insight! I will definitely pick up a copy of "Eve's Secrets"...
xo~Sadie

Anonymous said...

Yes, it's real. I do it [and I'm female, LOL]. Sometimes it's a little; sometimes I need a thick folded towel under me to soak everything up if it's happening in bed.

Dastranger said...

While I do believe that female ejaculation is real, please note that this is a HUGELY debated topic amongst doctors, sexologists, and psychologists. In the scientific community, female ejaculation is not "definitive."

Again, please note, that I do think that female ejaculation, squirting, gushing, whatever is absolutely real. Part of my issue though is that not every woman can ejaculate, and I do worry that women who cannot ejaculate will start thinking of themselves as inadequate (which I do not think they are at all).

Sexie Sadie~ said...

Yes, Destranger, I hope it doesn't become such a "thing" that women who don't/can't ejaculate will feel somehow inadequate. I do know some guys who think it's a real turn-on, and I have also heard from guys who think of it as the opposite. But, whatever the case, I know that there will be debate and discussion on this for quite some time. xo~Sadie

Dastranger said...

@Sadie

Glad you agree. :) Both men and women have enough inadequacy issues (when most of us are totally fine and good) that adding this just irks me a bit. Coming from a man, I do enjoy seeing a woman squirt myself. Then again, seeing any form of female pleasure just gets me going.

Anonymous said...

Sadie,
This is "Cody" from Swingerwife's blog.
This is not a fallacy or fiction!
My wife "Danielle" is most definately a "Squirter".
I had never had a woman like that before her. So the first times it was very awkward, after that... VERY COOL! It seems to be an orgasm meter. The wetter... the harder and/or better the orgasm is/was. These orgasms are only from deep G & A Spot stimulation orgasms, it does not happen during external clitoral stimulation. not that we are researching for a paper or anything but I DO pay attention to my woman and ensure I take care of her every need and desire!
SW's "Cody"

Anonymous said...

I can assure you that female ejaculation is real. My wife is a squirter and has been for years. The amount of ejaculate is far more than my own, and can leave quite a substantial puddle...The real turn on is that when she does squirt I know that she has had an incredible orgasm...