Recently, I was asked by a married man, via email, to give him pointers on how to please his wife...orally.
Apparently, she's not so much into the oral sex thing. Giving or receiving. He came to me for advice.
He told me his technique, which consists of a circular motion without over-stimulating the clit as well as some concerted tongue fucking. This certainly sounds good, but the thing with twat tonguing is that not all women are created cunnilingus-ly congruent. Every woman likes to have her pussy eaten out differently.
Personally, I like a thumb inserted inside me when my pussy is getting oral attention. Sucking on my clit with the tongue while being shallowly penetrated by a deftly placed digit is a surefire way to hit Sadie's spot and hear her moan. But some women don't like it that way. Also, if there is any insecurity on the woman's part about the way she smells, or how she sounds, or if she has been socially programmed to believe that oral sex is just wrong, then her partner could have their work cut out for them. A fear of queefing on the face of their partner is another annoyance that can cause unbearable anxiety in a woman. I accidently blew Hubby's face with air on Sunday night when he was going down on me. We simply had a good laugh about it and moved on. It's the only thing that can be done.
The trick is to find what works for your woman. Look her in the eye when you are down there. Ask her if what you are doing to her cunt feels good. Tell her to alert you when you are doing something that she likes and doesn't want you to stop doing. Feel your way around her pussy with your mouth gently, reverently, pleasantly. If you enjoy yourself, chances are that she will too.
If you would like to read some tips on how to please a woman with the twat tingling trifecta ~the mouth, tongue and fingers~ then check this out.
And if you want to watch a great lesson in perfect pussy manipulation taught by porn stars extraordinaire, then go here.
Enjoy!
7 comments:
i've found if i let the girl sit on my face and get busy she is in control of where my tongue goes, nothing wrong with giving up a little control
BD
Hi, I enjoy reading your blog & am impressed that you update it so often. Sadie's world sounds like a very intriguing place indeed, am looking forward to reading more of your adventures.
Don't let the negative, self-righteous arse-wipes get you down, just keep on living your life the way you want. You're not hurting anyone, and they need to get over themselves.
Not sure exactly why I had to let you know that, just did... so now you know :-)
Charlee
I talk to a new partner, like you were advising, and also listen to their sounds while eating them and feel their reactions while I am doing one thing or another. Most of the time, I concentrate on the clit but vary that. I start with one finger in her pussy, then two, or three.
I always approach her from her head, as in 69, even though we aren't doing 69. It's more intimate and comfortable for me than the GYN-OB direction and my hands and fingers are free to give her additional pleasure. Also, she may stroke me in that position.
I've had a lot of success that way but always willing to take advice.
HT
"not all women are created cunnilingus-ly congruent."
Amen, Sister!!!
Love this alliteration. I may need to find a way to use this phrase in my everyday. Just to feel it roll off my tongue.
:) Honey
Even an "expert" can always use pointers on technique .. very imformative .. I wish school lessons had been this sexy!
I love the "YOU being into it" bit of advice. If you don't want to be down there it definitely shows. A love of what you're doing can go a long way if you aren't that skilled.
Thanks for the comments everyone!! Charlee, no worries, I have only had one comment from a so-called "self-righteous arse wipe", and that was the first week I started this blog. :) xo~Sadie
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